Be friends first before dating
I'm used to people butchering the pronunciation and spelling of my name. I blame the Asian-language TV soaps I was weaned on. Which is why I always ask for hot sauce and have an emergency bottle of Tabasco in every purse.
This girl wanted to be very serious with him and would talk about them getting married and having kids.
Two months is plenty of time to determine if a relationship has the potential to go anywhere and would not be rushing into anything. It sounds like a bit of role-reversal here since you seem to be the one trying to push this along while he sits and ponders in a state of indecision. In the early stages of a relationship there should be fireworks and a strong sense of mutual desire. Sweet Nicey-Nice Pants" is a routine, or he's just very in touch with his feminine side.
If you were being strung along he would have had sex with you by now..you allow it. I'm sorry....dating a guy for a month and he's still moving this slow (out of fear no less) seems more than just a bit odd. Us guys hate hearing the words "let's be friends first" from the women we're interested in. If you've had some passionate kisses and they were good, I would say give him a few more weeks.
This pressure comes not just from their friends, but it's a part of maleness to want to demonstrate your virility even to yourself.
If he is resisting that urge out of respect for your feelings, then respect him in turn.