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And I do find myself telling my sisters about University of Virginia and Boston College teams — where they went to school.I once tried this, but the entire time I was trying to contort my body so that I could get everything inserted correctly.Remember: the purpose of the first email is to get the woman curious and have her reply with or without checking out your ad.Women who replied to my ad wrote that they liked it because it seemed that I have a pretty good idea of what I was looking for...The point is that you have to make sure you won't get stuck if Sweet Cherry turns out to be a Bitter Lemon.
Then introduce yourself ("Hi, this is K"), make minimal small talk and proceed with the close.
Lunch works best and so does "meeting for coffee or drinks after work".
If you don't hear back from her within a week, chances are she changed her mind about you.
Remember: the purpose of your ad is to provide some basic information about you to the women you will write to.
You can put your picture if you want but from my personal experience I found that it doesn't really affect the number of replies.