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My method of seduction is always to show interest by joking and playing ambiguously.
In Germany, subtily showing your interest leads straight into the Berlin wall and showing your excitement is likely to make him disappear from the radar screens.
You might think that you have the entire dating scene figured out, but if you’ve ever dated German men you know that they’re just about the toughest nationality to read romantically.
Don’t take us too seriously, we know individual differences overshadow cultural identity!
Expect a few scoffing remarks, but definitely not a call back after this one.
That even goes for vintage fashion trends so you better start planning out your wardrobe accordingly – like now.
If he dares to invite you for a coffee, it will be booked well in advance because the German gentleman is busy.
I guess it refers to the emotional agitation as well.
Although I believe that most women would appreciate being seduced in a spontaneous and romantic way, the attractive German male needs a situation where there is no risk of being ridiculous when he starts a conversation with someone.
In his rational approach, he also needs an objective reason for it and he must have a way out as if flirting was dangerous.
Already in 19th century, the writer Goethe linked this situation to suffering by stating “Nur wer die Sehnsucht kennt, weiß, was ich leide.” (translation: Only one who knows longing, knows, what I suffer).