Intimidating anal sex
"For drawn-out anal play, regular lube top-ups are definitely a good idea."Cosmopolitan UK recommends: Lube not only makes sex and play safer because it reduces the risk of injury, tearing and soreness, but it makes it feel wayyy better too.
Just make sure that if you're using a silicone butt plug, the lube you accompany it with is water-based.
So always, always, always look for a flared base.range of sex toys is awesome, and their 'Ass of an Angel' plug is perfect for beginners.
Made from silicone (which, importantly, is a safe material for sex toys), it should be used with water-based lube only.
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If you are using a butt plug with a penis-haver, listen up.
At climax, orgasmic contractions around a butt plug can feel more intense than without, and stimulate the nerve endings around the anus that usually get overlooked."If someone with a vagina wears a butt plug, their partner may also notice a difference in sensation if they're penetrating them.
Toys with flared bases have no chance to get lost up in there.
Beware, there are many anal toys available to buy that don't have these safety features and that aren't safe to use.
Okay, here’s another thing that could leave you and her scarred. You need to focus on your partner, because if they’re not having a good time, don’t expect a second time round. Whenever I have sex, I always make sure to have a towel on the side. But it isn’t some mythical creature, so don’t freak out.
Same goes for anal sex, I think it’s even more important to have a towel in this case. Just make sure you’re communicative and doing it with someone you trust.