Perhaps you email well but never get past the first phone call.Perhaps your coffee dates are good, but your dinner dates end up in the doldrums.By keeping a clear head and not sweating the small stuff, you can minimize the bruises and scrapes of wayward love and get centered in your quest to find the person you want to be with.What techniques do you use to keep your head up in the world of dating?When battling rejection, how can you withstand the constant blows to your ego and still come out a champion? Keep some Perspective Remember, in this world where people must constantly fight against disease, wildfires, and droughts, your dating issues are not the biggest problem humanity has ever had to conquer.And haven’t you had some successes in your personal life that far outweigh any temporary setbacks you’re feeling in your love life?For better or worse, dating is a numbers game, and a certain percentage of attempts are bound to fail.
These can be personal goals met, adversities overcome at work, self-expression achieved through art, or the contribution made by helping others.
The support of people who care about you can even be the springboard that allows you to jump back into the dating pool.
Think Like a Salesperson Have you ever had a job where you had to sell something expensive, such as a car or a set of diamond earrings?
The lucky thing about soul mates, though, is that it just takes one!
If you’re constantly meeting new people, communicating, and asking people out or going on dates—sure, you will experience rejection, but you’ll be able to get past the rejecters much more quickly and to find the people who treasure your company.